Thursday, July 31, 2008

The Empty Guest Room

This is Stan Vernon and Tom Fischer writing from Portland, OR.

Valjean has been much on our minds this week: she was supposed to be here now, a five-day visit we were all looking forward to. Tom and I haven’t lived in Chicago for 20 years, but we kept in touch with VJ and would see her on her occasional trips to Boston, where we then lived, and our occasional trips to Chicago. Her first trip to Portland was intended to be not just our first reunion with her in several years but a real celebration: she booked the trip in the spring when the prognosis looked promising. Her ashes were buried the day before she was to have arrived.

We were going to make her a present of a children’s book, the proceeds of which go to help the children of AIDS victims in Zimbabwe. Now we will keep the book as a reminder of our dear friend who touched so many lives here and abroad. We raised a glass to Valjean on the day of her death and have raised several more since. In the Anglicized version of the old Scottish toast:
“Here’s to you. Who’s like you? Nobody.”

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